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I’m sure that makes you guys feel great – knowing that you were the only person capable of bringing out the worst in us.Knowing that we’re not really interested in what you had to go through to heal or in knowing how you’ve moved on, all we want is to be able to sleep peacefully at night knowing that you know it wasn’t us now, it was us at that time in our lives or, it wasn’t us at all, it was you (don’t worry we forgive you).The feedback has been amazing and I truly appreciate you all.If you’ve emailed me sharing your thoughts, and I haven’t got back to you, don’t worry, soon come. Because we men are creatures of habit and because we can’t let you women just move on, there’s a good chance that at some point we pop up and try to reinsert ourselves into your lives. When we know we’ve done wrong it’s in our nature to reappear for a number of reasons. In this case, because we’re not trying to get back together with the woman, this is a ridiculously selfish reason to come back into her life. Any good detective will tell you that criminals who are guilty can’t help but return to the scene of the crime; neither can we. Sometimes we want to show you that we’ve changed, and are better people.
As men, I think we sometimes have to take responsibility for the damage we’ve done and respect the fact that our women are entitled to rebuild themselves in whatever way they see fit.We leave her, thinking she’ll be the only one who experiences any loss, but, really, we lose too.Try as we may to fill that spot she left with the square pegs of another woman or of other women, there’s always a certain amount of emptiness that remains.Or it wasn’t us, nor was it you, it was just the ‘we’, that brought that out.Either way, if this is why we’re reappearing, it’s probably best if we just stay gone. The only thing better than meeting an awesome new woman is meeting an old girlfriend who now seems way more awesome than she was when you were with her.